William
Leach was a rare man who spent his entire adult life serving Grawood
Baptist Church. Most of those years he was a deacon. In 1980, my family
moved to Keithville, and William Leach and his wife Gloria came by my
house to invite us to church. In 1985, he became my father in law when I
married his daughter Colleen. Though he had plenty of reasons to be
concerned about his daughter’s choice of a spouse, he always treated me
with patience and kindness. He was the epitome of a man who devoted his
life to God, his family, and his church. In 1986, Mr Leach became my
employer, and from him I learned how to use a hammer, a saw, and all
types of woodworking equipment. He taught me the importance of hard
work, keeping the work sight clean, planning ahead, and sharing my
faith. He was a man who could do anything…build a house, make cabinets,
fix a water heater, figure out why an electric panel wasn’t working, or
get a broken down car started. He was always ready for a crisis,
carrying his tools everywhere he went, and he was always ready for a
spiritual crisis by carrying a New Testament in his pocket at all times,
ready to pray for someone in need, or read them a portion of scripture.
He did not miss church…Sunday mornings, Sunday nights, and Wednesday
nights, and on Monday nights he went visiting church prospects. He
visited church members who were in the hospital whenever necessary, and
he did this tirelessly into his 70s. As a man who valued the Bible above
all earthly things, he became a Gideon and gave away hundreds of
Bibles.
In
1987, I worked construction, and work was slow. That fall, I needed a
full time job, so I applied for the Sheriff’s Office. There was no
guarantee of getting hired, so while I waited, I worked for anyone I
could. One week, I worked for Ned Ellzey who was a contractor. Ned and
his wife Shelby grew up in Sabine Parish with my father and mother in
law William and Gloria Leach. Ned was a tall, imposing man, but he was a
good listener and had the habit of looking a person in the eye when he
spoke to them with his slow, country accent. The way he communicated
with people conveyed the fact that he cared about them. During the week I
worked for him, Ned asked me about my application with the Sheriff’s
Office. I told him I was reluctant to be a deputy because it could be a
dangerous job , and I did not want to leave my wife uncared for. Ned
told me, “Wel-l-l-l, I wouldn’t worry about that. The way I see it when
it’s your time to go…it’s your time to go.” I didn’t know much about
theology in those days, but what he said made good sense to me. Last
year, I retired from the Sheriff’s Office after 34 years.
I
met Buddy Matheny on March 1, 1988. It was my first day as a Deputy
Sheriff. I was working the jail, and Buddy was one of the deputies who
transported prisoners. Another deputy told me Buddy was a Christian and
very quiet. I remember thinking the deputy’s comment was unusual because
he inferred Buddy was the only Christian who worked in the jail. Later,
I found out there were Christians in uniform as well as behind bars,
and I also found out Buddy Matheny was not an average Christian, nor was
he as quiet as some people thought. Buddy was old enough to be my
father, but we became close friends. He was concerned about the
spiritual condition of everyone he met, and he talked to people about
their only hope in this life and the one to come: Jesus Christ. Buddy
worked in the Civil Department, getting up early in the morning to catch
people before work and working late to catch them when they got home.
Between those hours, he often came by and we talked, sometimes about
wood working, knife making, and world events, but mostly about the
gospel. He once told me that as a Christian, he was continually learning
and growing closer to Christ, but two things happened to him the moment
he was saved. Before salvation he had a foul mouth, but when he was
saved, the Lord took that away. This was my experience at salvation as
well, and in Buddy’s case, it was the reason people identified him as a
Christian. The second thing that instantly changed in Buddy’s life was
his desire to give to the church, and he continued to give to God’s
Church without compulsion for the rest of his life.
Usher:
an officer or servant who has the care of the door of a court, hall, or
chamber. When I see this definition, I instantly think of Al Bogan. For
decades, he was the keeper of the “door”. Al was the quintessential
usher at Grawood Baptist Church. While a person could fulfill the duty
of an usher by handing a visitor an order of service and pointing out a
seat, Al systematically preformed his duties and added to them kindness,
humor, and concern. For many members, he was the first impression and
friend made at church.
Jimmy
Edwards was the epitome of humility. From a distance he resembled a
gunfighter in cowboy boots and a western suit, but as you you got
closer, you found a man with a smile and a firm, friendly handshake.
Jimmy never seemed to have concerns of his own, instead he was concerned
about what was going on in my life. Like Al Bogan, he was a faithful
usher, providing service, friendship, and security all at the same time.
As a young man, I often carried one of my three crying babies out of
the auditorium and found Jimmy in the foyer. He always came to check on
us. While I was frustrated and impatient with my rebellious, squirming
children, Jimmy looked at them with wonder. Many times he asked me if he
could kiss my babies on top of their head, and I consented. Each time
his gentleness seemed to calm them, and each time he delighted in their
presence. His perspective changed my perspective. I thanked God for it
then, and I still do.
For
decades, J R Stephenson was the church custodian and a deacon. After J R
graduated from high school, he had a football scholarship to Louisiana
Tech, but instead, he joined the army and fought in World War II. He was
a quiet, soft-spoken man who always seemed to be at the right place at
the right time. In addition to his duties as a custodian, J R was a
gifted gardener who planted trees, flowers, and bushes which continue on
the church campus to this day. I was converted at the age of 21, and
the youth director at that time, Scott Camp, had regular prayer meetings
with a handful of us in attendance. J R was always a part of those
prayer meetings.
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Lewis was a veteran of World War II who fought at Normandy on D-Day and
carried shrapnel in his leg until the day he died. He was a truck
driver and contractor who built houses which still stand in Breckinridge
subdivision. Though he was a large, imposing man, he had a tender heart
for children and those in need.
Carl
Hawkins was a tireless man. As the owner of several businesses, he was
constantly busy, and like most businessmen, he had hobbies; however, Mr
Hawkins hobbies weren’t like most men in his position. Instead of
jogging, golf, or racket ball, Mr Hawkins hobbies were witnessing to the
lost, preaching to inmates, and handing out Bibles, and these things he
did as a matter of habit and not compulsion.
Mickey McDaniel